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  1. As a senior who still thinks the best music was written in the 17-18th centuries, I have no idea who Pharrell is, but he looks like a silly little man in a funny hat.

  2. Forgot to add, I wouldn’t change from the progress of feminism today for ANY reason. Go girls.

  3. There are some things in this world that are so useless and worthless that one wonders why anyone with even a suggestion of a brain would get involved.
    This story is about one of those things. What a load of senseless crap.

    1. I am a practicing artist, and I find art engaging and interesting and I find celebrity culture pretty fascinating if you find all of this senseless crap, why did you read the article? The title told you exactly what it was about.

    2. So a man tells women that an issue which is important to them is useless and worthless, and wonders why anyone would get involved.

      Nice one Barry. Your misogyny is showing loud and clear.

      1. @Lara pretttty much, I get the stuff I write for this site really diviates from most of the content but, these are the things I am interested in. I did 5 years of art school and I am really interested in celebrity culture it dominates so much of many peoples likes, may as well critique that shit.

        1. Hey Chloe I’m a bit late to the party, so hope you see this. Good post, you should do more of the same, particularly on why mainstream pop culture continues to normalise sexual exploitation & misogyny.

          A lot of people go on about stupid song Blurred Lines yet few have really commented (from what I can see) on why it was so offensive. Including those Auckland Law Students who did that awesome parody.

          Pharrel wrote & rapped the lines “Yeah, I had a bitch, but she ain’t bad as you. So hit me up when you pass through
          I’ll give you something big enough to tear your ass in two”.

          THIS is what pissed off all women around the world who had an ounce of basic comprehension re sexual violence. It is this that got the rape support groups up in arms yet everyone seems to have bypassed this & focus on the misogyny….or not even that. I was amazed that Ellen had those two tossers on her show.

          The misogyny prevalent in pop culture that seems to be continually enabled by stupid people, including women who pass it off as merely innocuous fun is a massive issue, but if people, especially women don’t understand that consent is never a grey area, that sex & any sexual intimacy has to derive from an absolute yes then misogyny will continue to run rife.

          Women need to make the stand first & foremost. They need to expect & demand a higher standard from all men in their lives – partners, fathers, brothers, workmates etc & they need to support each other. They need to understand how men work, how they approach sex & how this is different to women. They need to understand that sex is something that can never be left to interpretation. For example, Robin Thicke’s wife should have kicked him to the curb the moment she was made aware of these lyrics. Instead, she supported him & his efforts to normalise ‘blurred lines’. She also allowed him to continue on with saying bullshit comments like how she greets him with very little on when he gets home from work. If that is how they like to do things good for them, but when he brings that kind of personal detail into the public arena it moves from being something fun, intimate or special to misogynistic crap as it allows him to boast & implies that is how all women should be.

          The men on here will prob disagree, but by and large I think men are without an internal moral code. I’m not saying most men are not good men, but when push comes to shove you will find that few men really understand the complexity of sexual assault & how so-called innocuous behaviour & expectations can pave the way to normalising things like say, date rape. For most men they just try & get as much as they can for very little in return 🙂 They just have different brains. And that’s not a bad thing, but when it comes to sex it has to be reigned in. Women have to be clear, direct & decisive without being prudish, condescending & cold. It’s a balance which I think few people get.

          Rape is rape and no means no …whether it is a no from the outset or it is a no just before you are about to seal the deal. Regardless of when the no is said, no is no & it is a woman’s right to change her mind if she feels uncomfortable as it is her body that is being invaded, not his. Not saying I agree with cock-teasing – most women could do with a lesson in communication skills in the intimacy department, but that doesn’t mean that an expectation/heightened expectations should translate into an automatic right to ‘enter’.

          Just my 2 cents 🙂

    3. Barry, if an analysis of pop-culture and sexism is beyond your intellect, then you should just keep quiet. Otherwise you just look like a fucken ignorant and irrelevant cock.
      We all understand that you’re incapable of thinking critically about the issues of power that occurs throughout society, but isn’t there something else you can do?
      Maybe there’s some horse racing on trackside? Or go watch one of those Paul Henry shows you’ve got stored on your skybox.

  4. Quite frankly Chloe I don’t like the video industry: it is sexist, and it demeans women and men alike. All I see is the promotion of sex and violence, men having to look like gangsters, buffed up, or “girlied” metro-sexuals like some preening Jagger. The girls half naked, pouting and doing the bring it on act. Half a minute of this and I turn the switch.

    Therein is the issue: the audience is targeted, for their ultimate vulnerabilities. Sex sells to both sexes. I personally think the whole industry is predicated on a society which demands instant gratification, where we are “consumers”, we want it now and we want it to be obvious. And because of that we don’t allow ourselves to imagine, to have some anticipation, discovery, mystery. There is no romance.

  5. he truly meant no harm by his song, and feminists everywhere just misread him

    Both true.

    Reminds me of the time Ronald Reagan publicly admired “Born in the USA”.

  6. Hey, great information, Chloe, thank you. I have been reading articles written by extremely anxious parents wondering what the hell world their daughters are being born into. And their sons. My take on it all is that we are going to find out that the virtual world has a way more direct impact on us in the ‘real’ world as we define it.

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