Dating is tough. It isn’t easy. It’s a constant juggle of emotions, problems, affection, attraction, and a lot of other considerations. Depending on the person, it is all worth it. But sometimes, it’s a lot of hard work for nothing. Because the person wasn’t the right person or wasn’t the one. So how can you tell if the person who you are bending over backward for is the right one for you? Here are the 5 signs that tell you if they’re the one. And yes, even if you met them on one of the best hookup sites, they do still work!
#5- the pettiness is at a minimum
Everybody is guilty of being petty. In a relationship, it’s double the petty because there are two of you. But as long as the petty is kept at a minimum then that shouldn’t be a worrying sign. Once the petty starts to go, to the point where you two will do things to spite each other, then you may want to reconsider where your love interest lie.
#4- Common grounds of understanding comes natural
Understanding each other is crucial in a relationship. Knowing when to be there and when to give space for example. Or when to see them, versus allowing them time with their friends. When these sort of common grounds of understanding come naturally in the relationship then you know you guys hit it off. Although, they might take time to establish in the first few months, but as long as they aren’t a recurring issue throughout.
#3- The attraction never dies
It’s hard keeping the attraction going especially as you go deeper into the relationship. But if you are deep into the relationship and the love interest, the attraction is still there and you just can’t keep your hands off of each other, then you know you have something special.
#2- The sex is still great
This one pretty much speaks for itself, doesn’t it? After all, if it’s been years and you still do it like the day you first met, then need I say more?
#1- You Just Know
The telltale signs can be there for you to read the writing on the wall, but in some cases, they may not. Either way, they don’t need to be! Once you know, then you know. You don’t need any further inclination. You’ve been with this person long enough to know that they are the person you want to spend the rest of your life with.
