Sexual Culture – Alt-Right cuckoldry, hyper-hetrosexual Putin fetishisation and toxic Trump masculinity
Some reckons on the deep and dark toxic masculinity sexual culture that drives Trumpism.
I think the bewildering hatred and contempt of women is one of the most striking manifestations of Trump populism. Social media has opened a new dialogue front in gender rights and minority rights that have caught many privileged males off guard.
The fury the majority of women and minorities righteously feel towards patriarchal capitalist culture is unfiltered and streamed live 24-7 now, and its increasing influence in the debate has angered, alienated and on some rare occasions, enlightened many men.
The real problem of a patriarchal capitalist culture however is that toxic masculinity drenches most men in it. Without the emotional skills and secure character that privilege robs many men of, most males are ill equipped for the strident new voices on social media and lack the ability to find security in their own identification of the masculine.
This leads to a festering and toxic resentment of women caused by their own self loathing.
The ‘privilege’ many men are accused of doesn’t feel like much of a ‘privilege’ for the men themselves. An inability to be emotionally secure, the pressures of being a provider, the pressure from other men to not be the weakest member of the group, the horrific suicide, depression and illness rates of men, our crime rates, our violence, our uneducated ignorance – these are not beneficial privileges in any real sense of the word.
A man might earn more per hour than a woman, but if he can’t cry without getting drunk that’s not much of an entitlement.
I’ve never understood the mocking some on social media make of the fragility of men’s masculinity. That fragility speaks of a deeper pain that can’t be resolved using the current gender defined roles of being male.
Mocking men for being fragile seems counter-productive in the extreme.
Understanding the bizarre strands that bond the Alt-Right with this damaged sexual culture are difficult to appreciate if you haven’t seen the mutation of Breitbart media over Obama’s past two terms.
I think the weird hyper-hetrosexual Putin fetishisation that has seduced so many of the Alt-Right is part of this wider backlash towards women fed by this sudden confrontation of privilege via social media.
The Right in America, in an attempt to undermine Obama, always built Putin up as some sort of Ninja Chess player who constantly outplayed Obama. Putin worship in America bonded with the Right as a way to belittle Obama’s foreign policy. Mix those trends in with toxic masculinity insecurity and Putin’s macho man brutality towards the Gay, Lesbian, Bi, Trans and Gender Fluid communities and this aggressive hyper-heterosexuality has spread like cyber chlamydia throughout right wing social media.
Take the ultimate Alt-Right insult ‘cuck’. Cuckoldry is the sexualisation of everything toxic masculinity hates. The idea of a male allowing his female partner to enjoy her self sexually with any other sexual partner she choses while playing with those taboo gender constructs of power is blasphemy to the Alt-Right. For the vast oceans of men morbidly fractured and damaged by toxic masculinity, the mere idea of giving power away to their partner in such a way is a sin to all and everything they understand.
We have a culture and humanity in desperate need of healing. The prison of toxic masculinity that locks so many men from a true and deeper connection with the world around them can’t be unwound by more animosity, it actually requires kindness, compassion and a sense of empathy.
Those attributes are in short supply right now when everyone else’s pain feels far larger than the perceived privilege of being male.
If this article generates one quality relationship, it’s done it’s good. It highlights the demand for quality relationship advice that the old, find a good Christian wife didn’t quite get under the 50% Devore rate
‘Take the ultimate Alt-Right insult ‘cuck’. Cuckoldry is the sexualisation of everything toxic masculinity hates. The idea of a male allowing his female partner to enjoy her self sexually with any other sexual partner she choses while playing with those taboo gender constructs of power is blasphemy to the Alt-Right.’
Really?
It’s blasphemy to any self respecting man or woman. To me it seems only emotionally fragile and character deficient people would need the kibbles from multiple lovers to fill the void of their deeply empty self esteem.
What are you on? What is this word salad? Does an ‘enlightened’ or ‘progressive’ man engage in mutual sexual free-for-all in his relationship? If so, I don’t want one. I would rather have a man of fidelity and honour over one who wants a a gender-fluid share-a-thon. This post is troubling and kind of gross. Are you advocating for pan-sexualism or polyamory as the left wing way? No wonder the left is dying. Are these your own words or thoughts? Whatever happened to honour, loyalty, fidelity, commitment? When did those become bad things? Maybe this shit is what’s wrong in the world and what has contributed to the dilution of our (everyday people) economic and emotional disempowerment.
I don’t want a glorified flat mate / co-providing / zem/ zir/ ze / zo/ zit for a relationship. The emphasis on a plethora of sexual identities and decline of morals and character HAS destroyed the left and HAS allowed Trump to happen. He may be a twice divorced, thrice married, pussy grabbing billionaire but at least you know he’s definitely American and he is also a family man with all those kids and grandkids.
Fuck my life, Martyn. You need to get out of Auckland and mix with some normal people – or get some therapy. Is this what women can expect from the left-wing NZ male? Is there any hope for the single hetero female who just wants a decent man with some moral fibre and an honest character? I despair.
Actually, it’s a fairly well-known sexual ‘kink’. It generally takes informed consent from both male and female parties and a strong relationship to make it work. Christian judgementalism doesn’t enter into it; consenting adults, etc.
When it comes to the crypto-homosexual aspects of the alt-right and outright neo-nazis, the best novelist to make a point of this was the alternative history/fantasy novel, “The Iron Dream” , by Norman Spinrad. Read that, and you can never look on fascists again without a ‘knowing smile’.
Are they rainbows or fairies? Shit I’m going to have to read it now. 🙂
WTF is The Standard up to ? A WordPress log-in required ???
Ka ki te (but not ano) Standard. It’s been fun. I leave you with Archie (Colonial Viper) Bunker and the scintillating (“Trump’s much brighter than you…….so there !”) James. I said months ago that Trump lover CV was destroying The Standard and there you have it.
Never mind……all I wanted to say is this –
“But But But……my cock’s MUCH bigger than that !”
Trump, demonstrably falsely, insisting that The World attended…….
http://www.nzherald.co.nz/world/news/article.cfm?c_id=2&objectid=11786838