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  1. The fact remains that nobody should be or feel bullied in any government workplace, including Parliament. The only workplace where I have been bullied was in a government department. No Shrinking Violet, but I finally quit, massively stressed.

    There are a thousand and one ways of bullying, both overt and overt, as any survivor can testify to. Parliament needs to up its game. Its juvenile delinquents need to tidy up, stop twisting truths, stop telling lies, smarten up, acquire a modicum of decorum and grow up or go away.

  2. Slip of the finger: There are both ‘overt’ and ‘covert’ ways of workplace bullying, and both are bad.

  3. It’s unfortunate that Chhour feels this way but I can’t help thinking if she was a Green (for example) she’d be labelled a snowflake. Perhaps some of her unease stems from her not being entirely onboard with little upstarts like David Seymour.

    1. Yes Martyn is very generous about her, to the contrary of what she actually stands for as an Act poli with far too much power. Crying about being bullied is not humanising her. The young politician who seems to be picked on in parliament is the 21 year old Maipi-Clarke, most recently about her lap top sticker, and now for making Cchour cry. Pathetic.

      1. Lone Comet The young allegedly picked-on politician could be a performative artist pollie wearing a sunfrock to work and a French beret indoors as one of the seemingly mad hatters of her party.

    2. Maybe not. She gets clobbered by Maori party racists for not being the right sort of Maori, and if they think that they are, then they do Maoridom – and New Zealand – a disservice.

  4. Karen should tell her bosses to get fucked and put the child first .I think she is strugling because she knows this is wrong but is being pressured by Luxon and the other red necks in her party .

  5. When you implement catastrophic and racist policy and then cry wolf then it’s time for this wee snowflake to get out of the game. Simply appalling.

    1. I would listen to her before taking notice of your opinion as her knowledge is hard won not clouded by hatred of the right

      1. Much more important people than you Trevor know the right are racist and you taking more notice of her just shows how such a poor judge of character you are.

        1. Her passion and determination out trumps your opinions Obviously you do not find it strange to be racist against me as an immigrate and calling ne out as racist.

          1. Referring to you being from England, as in a citizen, doesn’t refer to your race Trevor. Why is that so hard to figure out?

  6. I can understand how difficult it is to ensure that children from damaged situations get to enjoy their childhood & develop into successful people. Yet, we are still reluctant to admit that the best way for children to prosper is that they grow up in a long-lasting relationship based on love & not lust. When will we admit that just doing things because they feel good often has consequences that are not good?
    Poverty is a major complicating factor that seems set to increase with this government & I do not see how any amount of deck chair shifting with care situations will negate the desperation forced upon people by current economic conditions.

    1. Bonnie A few kids along the relationship track and lust is likely to have vamoosed right out the window, with budgeting, sleepless nights, dirty floors, and cold homes, dislodging feel good things.

  7. Perhaps Ms. Chhour didn’t expect that she’d be given the job of implementing mean and unfair policies by this govt. Her leader is possibly unsupportive because it’s him who wants mean and unfair policies implemented the most.
    Ms. Chhour should not expect opposition parties not to be critical of her govt’s policies when they appear to be wrong and cruel. That’s their job.
    She may feel, in her heart of hearts, that what she’s being asked to do isn’t what she thought she’d be able to do. She may be feeling disillusioned with her party and what, she now realises, they stand for.
    Perhaps she’ll be the next waka-jumper.
    Either way, crying over milk you have spilt yourself, is pointless. Get stuck in and clean it up.

    1. Agreed she would have been better joining the mob like all her other mates that went through the system at the same time as she .Actually she is in a gang of thugs that enjoy bashing kids ,the sick and the brown people .The skin head gang leader will be treating her like shit because she is a woman first and brown second ,and he boss wont care because he will just get another sucker to do his rasist shit for him .
      I agree that she may not be enjoying what she is doing BUT she could woman up and say no .If she has kids I hope they are given more respect from her than every other kid in NZ is getting right now

  8. Unfortunately Karen is but a pawn in the David Seymour et.al playbook. He uses her lived experience to justify these appalling decisions to wipe Maori off the face of Aotearoa under the guise of fairness and non racism. He is a dangerous little man who cries foul at every opportunity when people don’t agree with him. BUT the most dangerous man in the government is Luxon who is weak and is letting both Winston Peters and Seymour get away with murder. Remember these 2 with the most power have approx only 14% of votes in NZ. We should rename them the toxic twins . This government needs to fail before its too late .

  9. My family also has some (genuine) trauma inflicted by the State, so as I watch this unfold, I can empathise.

    I believe Karen’s distress is 100% real and I’m watching a real psychological trauma response. Adrenaline + Cortisol = Amygdala hijack. This is real, not fake political theatrics (though Seymore will likely use it as fuel for some fake theatrics). Yet somehow we expect her to stay articulate, rational, emotionally regulated, and persuade us with her facts and logic.

    I also believe 100% that Karen wants better outcomes for children. Authentically, from the bottom of her heart.

    I also believe 100% that ACTs policy on this is very very bad, and very very dangerous. We’re just buying ourselves the next 50 years of high population prison muster here, with all the human, cultural and fiscal wreckage that brings.

    I believe that section 7AA is a pretty good solution, by far the best of all options I’ve ever seen.

    But also that all groups of people are flawed, and that there is a darkness that lurks in many concerns of NZ society, and that we still need checks and balances and oversight. Sometime those checks and balances involve financial audits based on (western) double entry booking keeping standards, or recorded interviews with lawyers and formal stuffy sounding reports detailing “failures of governance”. These tough questions tend to get asked, answered and reported in English, because…. well, we havn’t figured out a better way yet.

    If there was a safe, calm, forum out of the spotlight, for Karen, child and disability advocates, mana whenua, academic experts, other victims of the state etc to have a real hui and figure out what to do, we could come up with something better than any of us have yet seen.

    But, we can’t, ‘cos parliament is a toxic cesspool, and Seymore values clickbait and political oxygen more than he values children.

    This is a FKN STOOPID way to run a country, and more kids are going to die because the adults can’t figure out how to adult.

    1. Climate Womble I agree with you, that Karen Chhour wants better outcomes for children from the bottom of her heart. She appears to be a throughly decent person, unlike some MP’s. Boot Camps trigger much animosity, but if they differ constructively from past ones, they’re worth trying.

  10. Yes, I have absolutely no sympathy for her the party she is in and represents is downright nasty, racist bigots appeasing a small minority and their very rich backers. She is a front and she is very much a puppet of the right-wing tory party she represents of her choice. Too cry wolf after her policies are hurting the very people, she claims to care about is sickening, she has no sympathy for the many NZers suffering at the moment and I aren’t just talking about the OT kids and their whanau as her parties damaging policies have wider implications.

      1. Whatever. The woman has joined a party that wants to cut wage, benenfits, and destroy public services, which will make things for the people that come from her background WORSE.

  11. Sadly this section hasn’t stopped a kid getting killed once every five weeks.

    1. NZ has a bad track record of abusing children not just Maori families, churches, the state, wealthy and powerful people, cults, step parents, teachers, babysitters, religious groups and it’s still happening,Glorivale.

  12. Good to see the level of discourse supporting racist bullying. Shows many of you are as angry and willing to sell out human decency because someone has policies you disagree with strongly. Shows how low things are getting.

    1. You are the one who wants a bonfire of workers protection and the welfare state.

    2. Andrew2 you seem triggered yet the irony is you don’t see the carnage this Minister and her policies are creating.

      Hypocrite.

    3. Yep that’s how they do it, completely ignore act’s angry racist, anti poor bullying, then flip it around and use decency as weapon despite the societal damage they’re causing showing precisely the opposite, then end up minimizing the only sane response options available of disgust and outrage and ready us all for the next round of trust funded gutter politics.

      Why do you think the donors wanted David as party leader if not to fend off the obvious return fire they take when implementing the policies they’ve bought and paid for.

      So not all dopey fucknuts, are we? Discourse that – Cunt.

  13. Chhour might have life experiences in this field but I find her to be very politically naive.

  14. NZ has a bad track record of abusing children not just Maori families, churches, the state, wealthy and powerful people, cults, step parents, teachers, babysitters, religious groups and it’s still happening,Glorivale.

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