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  1. Kia kaha, Dave.

    Lots of chipping away for a long time is needed, but eventually they fall.

  2. Good on you Dave, Jane and family.

    As usual, when the public want action, the public have to make a FUSS!

    Keep going …..

    BIG hugs.

    Kia kaha!

    Penny Bright

  3. About time NZers faced up to suicide and its causes. Nearly 10 years ago our youngest son killed himself and my attempts to criticise the official line on suicide ran into a the brick wall of bureaucratic silence/hostility.
    That’s why I watched the TVNZ program The Hard Stuff on Suicide last night with more than a little interest.
    It was a mixed bag in my opinion.
    The low point was Nigel Lattas appeal to the authority of leading academic Professor Beautrais. She pushed the official line that suicide is a ‘complex’ problem and needs strict rules to make talking about suicide ‘safe’. This included silence on everything about suicide that may cause ‘harm’. The official definition of ‘harm’ means causing suicidal thinking and suicide itself.
    Unfortunately this closes down discussion and involvement of those most affected by suicide, the survivors from active involvement in stopping suicide for fear they are doing ‘harm’.
    The ‘harm’ argument was used by the government to shut down Yellow Ribbon in 2005. This was a private initiative of survivors to set up student run suicide support in schools. It was very popular and spread to many schools. However, involving young people in suicide prevention without official oversight by the research establishment and medical profession was used against Yellow Ribbon to attack it and force it to disband.
    Yet, there is no doubt that Yellow Ribbon was on the right track because the best parts of the Hard Stuff program were the segments that told us about the activist group set up by survivors that involved young people in suicide education, and the family which decades after the daughter attempted suicide finally sat down to talk about it heart to heart.
    Suicide will never be overcome until young people who are most at risk take responsibility for caring for one another and in doing so take charge of their lives. That way we will move from a culture which fears suicide which calls into question the meaning of life itself. We have moved from a mainly religious belief about life to a bureaucratically defined alienated life under capitalism.
    We are overdue to reject both these for life based on mutual understanding and mutual aid.
    Here’s my response to the wall of silence and the killing off of Yellow Ribbon following the death of my son. https://situationsvacant.wordpress.com/2009/04/29/talking-about-suicide/

    1. Yes, I agree. I lost my son 15.5 years ago and was ‘invited’ to be part of professor Beatrauis study….Quite frankly I do not believe any of this academic ‘study’ has achieved anything in 15 years ! What have they achieved ? What has it cost ? I am a proactive person but struggled to find any support of any kind like I needed and eventually realised there is nothing to support ‘heart and soul’ healing for those bereaved by suicide. I think this also applies to people stuffing depression and mental illness as well. I have started a community initiative called Anam Care Care Centre which I am beginning to introduce around NZ with the Reveri Harp being the tool of choice to reach ‘heart and soul’
      with people grieving and it has begun to have Reverie Harps winging their way to different regions of NZ.

  4. This link gives us something to ponder given the propensity for Big Pharma to push its drugs onto GPs for anything from a itchy nose to ‘having a down day’. Is mental health deliberately compromised from conception: https://newsununity.com/2016/08/20/drastic-300-rise-in-babies-born-already-addicted-to-heroin-opioids-painkillers/
    Another addiction drug is for children diagnosed with ADHA : http://www.naturalnews.com/052954_Big_Pharma_amphetamine_drugs_Adderall.html

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