I was saying just the other day that what NZ needs more of is another strident feminist podcast noting how shit NZ men are at sex, a lo and behold, we now have it!
The Good Sex Project: Why are Kiwis having so much average sex?
In the series’ first episode, we meet three people who’ve had plenty of pretty average sex and not-so-healthy relationships.
One of those, Chloe*, is a young Kiwi woman who’s had 45 different sexual partners. She goes on to describe how much bad sex she’s had along the way (spoiler alert – all of it).
What is surprising is that on one of the podcasts, there was almost a suggestion that heteronormative sex might be pleasurable in some form, which is a shock editorial change of direction for Stuff!
I think sex has become infinity more complicated and young men are not doing well…






…we have raised a generation of women to fear every male of rape while raising a generation of men who fear being accused of rape.
Alongside these grim stats is the argument men have privilege which has led to a poisonous toxic masculinity that spawns incel hate algorithms with a violent misogyny.
The beauty of social media is that it is unforgiving and we are all now unforgivable. Outage Olympics fuels resentment and the most dangerous part of identity politics is when white men become the victim.
Tell young men they are the problem long enough and they become the problem.
And here comes that twisted mutated problem…
‘Glorifying the Christchurch mosque shootings’: Teen keen to replicate mass killing in NZ
A man was found in possession of, and found to have distributed, the Christchurch mosque shooting video after leaving “alarming” threats with Youthline that he was going to “kill humans”.
Some of those “humans” who the then 19-year-old Nugi Reeves had threatened, were those who worked at Youthline, telling them he was “sick of killing animals and was going to kill humans”.
That would lead police to his house in June last year, where officers discovered two different videos from the 2019 shooting that claimed 51 lives.
Reeves appeared for sentencing in the Hamilton District Court today on four charges; two of possession of objectionable material, one of distributing that material, and another of threatening to kill Youthline staff.
The court heard, Reeves rang Youthline, a national helpline for youth, on June 3, last year, leaving them “alarming” messages.
He added he was interested in replicating a mass shooting in New Zealand and that he had access to guns.
The next day police searched his Hamilton home and found his cellphone that was used to send the messages. Officers seized his computer, along with a replica handgun and bullets.
An analysis of his hard drive revealed recordings; one of the 2019 Christchurch Mosque attack and a copy of the Anarchist Cookbook, both of which are classified as objectionable.
…and this one…
An Auckland academic says the attempted murder of two schoolgirls by a man who claimed he was lashing out because he’d never had a girlfriend is the biggest incident in Aotearoa’s extremist space since the New Lynn terror attack.
The drink driver, with previous fantasies of killing others, purposely swerved his vehicle to hit two schoolgirls at an Epsom bus stop — pinning the strangers against a brick wall.
Caleb Reilly Bell, 26, told police after the 50km/h pedestrian crash that his actions came over the perceived injustice of him never having a girlfriend and that others were happy when he was not.
University of Auckland senior lecturer Chris Wilson told the Herald it was significant because such attacks occur often overseas and it was the closest thing to an incel attack New Zealand had experienced.
…and this one…
Teen who planned Auckland terrorist attack targeting non-Muslims sentenced to prison
An Auckland teen who, after years of isolation and online radicalisation, took steps to plan a local terrorist attack that he hoped would kill 20 to 30 non-Muslims has been sentenced to two years and five months’ imprisonment.
The North Shore resident, now 21, sat in the dock in the High Court at Auckland today nodding as Justice Rebecca Edwards declined his lawyers’ request for home detention at the conclusion of the lengthy name suppression and sentencing hearing.
The judge pointed out that journal entries obtained by the police indicated that on three occasions the defendant had left his house intending to carry out attacks, including a time when he brought a kitchen knife to a hockey game but lost his nerve after encountering people who were nice to him.
“It was the kindness of strangers that stopped you that day,” the judge said. “But … you were well down the track of acting on your plan.”
…we are seeing alienated angry young men attempting to commit terrible violence to express their insignificance, their jealousy and their misplaced entitlement.
I fear we are now in a culture loop of violence that can not be broken thanks to social media.
Men feel alienated, the woke scream, men become more disengaged, internet porn robs intimacy, women start becoming far more picky in terms of earning power and educational level of potential partners, men blame women/society for their insecurities and personal failings and men commit terrible violence as their fuck you to a society that only cares about male pain when it explodes.
I’m looking forward to those dynamics being explored on the new NZ on Air sex podcast.

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Is anyone, I mean anyone, going to take a podcast on sex which is sponsored by a pizza company seriously?
Maybe they’ll do a “meat lovers” special.
Awesome
TuT Quite good wit there!
“Is anyone, I mean anyone, going to take a podcast on sex which is sponsored by a pizza company seriously?”
Don’t tell QAnon, they’ll connect the dots.
The ability for two people to form enduring relationships isn’t dependant on a particular ways of thrusting ones pevlic bone or any particular length of appendix.
It’s the little things, peace, that goes doubly for guys, security, woman are soft and inviting.
The more sex people have with the most amount of partners the less they’ll be able to pair bond. The devorce rate is clear on it if a woman has had 5 or more sexusual partners there’s an 80% chance she will initiate devorce proceedings and because men have all the power in a relationship, woman are supposed to have all the power in devorce but it doesn’t work like that woman want all the power in the relationship to!
It’s crazy. These fembots have twisted everything and still think they’re oppressed.
No I think Labour should keep on restoring the Kiwi dream of job security and housing.
Here’s a question for you @ Martyn:
If NuZull on Ear offered to give you funding for a year of podcasts without having to slum it with Damien and His enterage, OR even if RNZ offered a partnership along the lines of “the Detail” ………… would you accept the offer?
I think social media is half of the problem particularly for young men: they are stuck in their rooms gaming & scrolling- feeling lonely as young teens – and get nudged to grifters like Andrew Tate or Steven Crowder – or supposed experts like Jordan Petersen – who are telling them ‘women are bitches, treat them like shit and they’ll be all over you” instead of “You’re only 15, give yourself a break and find out what you like and you’ll find meet that girl, you’ve got plenty of time”. And then they go on line and harass your 15 year old daughter and call her a bitch, cause she’s not interested ( in anyone) and she’s just wanting to game on line. And that makes them even more resentful & less prepared to have a caring relationship
When sex is good it’s mind-blowingly awesome.
When sex is bad it’s still pretty good.
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