I watch the next generation replace thinking with feelings.
Their pronouns are ‘I’ and ‘me’.
Mine are ‘us’ and ‘we’.
The navel gazing self awareness all self help books promote seem to put your feelings above all else…
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…the Older I get, the more certain I am our role is to serve one another.
Forgiving the ‘toxic’ and the abusive, spending emotional energy into smiling at the lonely and offering help without any desire for a return other than being a decent human being.
We have replaced thought and cognitive rationalisation for emotions.
In today’s world you can win an argument simply by ‘feeling’ it more.
Because objective truth, logic and rational debate are all heteronormative white cis male privileges, ‘FEELINGS’ are all that matter now and once the middle class woke activists triggered that new threshold for truth, the feral anti vaxxers and Incels and redneck racists and Groundswell astroturf protests have done exactly the same!
This is the new politics of the neoliberal subjective!
We have too many fucking feelings and we have allowed a culture where feelings trump rational objective logic because the ‘lived experience’ of victims, racists, rednecks, Incels, feral antivaxers and woke middle class activists all replace reality, objective truth and class solidarity.
The only people who should give a fuck about your ‘feelings’ are you, your family and close friends.
Outside of that, fuck your feelings.
Your feelings ain’t my problem.
If your self-esteem is hurt by my thoughts, the clue is in the ‘self’ part of word, ‘self-esteem’.
You decide how you feel about shit, it ain’t no one else’s problem OR responsibility!
We have replaced feelings for rational debates.
We have replaced feelings for objective truth.
We have replaced feelings for wider context.
The Woke started this in 2016 with their social media Lynch mobs, the feral Right have now perfected it.
Everything we are seeing right now from this far right racist Government is ‘feelings’ based, not evidence based!
This Government is passing conspiracy theories into social policy because deranged antivaxxers ‘feel’ angry about a vaccination.
This Government will cut public funding to Community Sports if they have a Trans player because their angry anti-Trans voters ‘feel’ angry!
This Government is bashing beneficiaries, prisoners, renters, Māori, the environment and workers because the right wing voters ‘feel’ angry no matter how counterproductive those culture war revenge fantasies are!
FFS – we are seriously going to go against all the science and just raise the speed limits on roads because people feel angry at not being able to rush home!
Fuck! Your! Feelings!
The Right have perfected the Woke’s outrage olympics and all politics is now your ‘feelings’!
This is the new politics of the neoliberal subjective and our News media are attempting to adapt to a citizenship who want feelings and not thinkings to determine their news!
The new politics of the neoliberal subjective have robbed us of a unity based on rational logic and argument and replaced it with the sandcastles of feelings.
This cultural and economic dependence on donations means Corporate and State Media are telling the donors what they want to hear rather than what the news is.
Sure, blame the media for their corporate interests, petty bigotry and woke social engineering, but the truth is the vast majority of us have become emotional slaves to social media hate algorithm echo chambers that are dopamine rewarding us for doom scrolling and outrage olympics.
We have chosen to feed our emotions and feelings rather than engage our rational objective minds.
We are all burning the library while complaining the library doesn’t have the books we like.
The Big Tech Tzars have manipulated our collective fear, ego, anger and insecurities through social media hate algorithms in a way that has led to the largest psychological civil war ever launched against one another.
Meanwhile, the planet burns and every aspect of our existence is monetarised for big data to sell us more stuff we can’t afford. We are alienated and anesthetized by a consumer culture that keeps us neurotic and disconnected. Our work, our existence, every move we make are all built to suck money to a minority class that sits above us while under neoliberalism, globalization, financialization, and automation, our existence as individuals has only become more disposable.
Rather than celebrate the human experience, we will vomit the worst of us into an existential gravity of likes for hate.
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We need to rebuild NZ from the bottom up ,picking up everyone on the way .
Gordon, I agree in principle but let’s not pick up ‘everyone’. Let’s leave the evil perpetrators to fend for themselves. There are more than enough decent human-beings in our world and country to form a new, fresh and caring society, but we need to separate the chaff from the wheat by not including the greedy, self-absorbed, cruel scumbags. We all know people who firmly fit into that pattern of behaviour. Let’s aim for a better world – surely it can’t get any worse! We must never give up. We must fight for decency, mutual respect and a huge dose of kindness.
I think that my feelings are the nation’s problem until Peters resigns and it must be now, because my feelings on this is fact. Prove me wrong.
After that we can move on positively and steady-quick. There’s more, which is also fact. But you can’t wallow in your feelings whilst waiting for the next bit.
It’s a fact I’m bluffing.
And also a fact that, to date, I never lose in this feelings Science.
PETERS RESIGN
You will be talking about self sacrificing love soon going on the tone of this article, that’s a good thing so keep up the good work.
When we rail at desperate immigrants for taking our jobs in benefit to corporate profits, or our means of production being are taken overseas to wage slave factories, or our healthcare system is controlled by big pharma’s profit margins, rather than the public good, or when the planet burns, and our leaders don’t lift a finger and in fact exacerbate it, or when our wages can’t keep up with inflationary polices supporting the one percent, or when we vote, and the only choices are which billionaires wet dreams we will suffer, or when we choose penis heads, pin heads and fat heads to play on our prejudices, or when we revile those who save our lives because there is a small cost in helping our neighbors, or when we lap up bullshit like it’s chocolate pie, or when we let injustice go unpunished while justice is ignored, or when we let social media determine who and what we can or cannot like, and all because we don’t think for ourselves, or actually research the difference between Ill thought opinions (and feelings) and actual facts, it is then that we are all slaves. When we can’t tell the forest from the tree cutters…
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