The pandemic of loneliness and polarisation

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Teen loneliness machine

The tech ecosystem that surrounds today’s teens is fueling loneliness.

    • Why it matters: It’s a dangerous environment for a generation that’s already sad and stressed. And it’s more difficult than ever for their parents, teachers and coaches to understand and help them, Axios’ Erica Pandey writes.

📈 The big picture: Data shows that teens are spending less time hanging out with friends in person, and more time on their devices.

    • America’s 15- to 24-year-olds spend 35% less time socializing face-to-face than they did 20 years ago, The Atlantic reports.
    • Instead, American kids and teenagers spend nearly six hours a day looking at screens, according to the Digital Parenthood Initiative.

We hate each other thanks to social media.

While we hate each other more than ever before, we are more lonely than we have ever been before.

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We are lonely,  more depressed and sicker.

Our loneliness, our depression, our sickness are all fomenting the spin of social media hate algorithms which only further polarise our debate into All Tribe and No Village politics.

I think we are a clever ape who has evolved over 300 000 years. Because we have to compete against other sentient and self conscious clever apes and work with them as groups so our intelligence and ability to use tools could change our environment, we have had to bond and understand each other over hundreds of thousands of years of evolution.

When we meet in person, our bodies and brains and taking in millions of different details subconsciously and we are working each other out through facial cues, pheromones, gait, stance, smiles, eye contact, etc etc etc: we have taken those 300 000  years of evolution and replaced that  with flat screen interaction where we lose all that unseen evolutionary advantage and instead become brainwashed and trapped in rabbit holes of demented reality.

Flat screen interaction is warping our human capacity to tell what is true and what isn’t because we don’t have that sense of the person in front of us and all the million ways we asses each other in our evolved brain.

We have become an ocean of spite and resentment in an All Tribe No Village politics distorted by social media hate algorithms because 300 000 years of evolution can’t work in a flat screen interaction loneliness.

 

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15 COMMENTS

  1. i HAVE SEEN THIS TREND AMONG MY GRAND KIDS .The 13 year old girl has withdrawn from all social interaction apart from going to school .She used to play 2 sports and do dance classes each week now she does none of them .

    • They’re a lot more switched on than we give them credit for but that puberty transition is definitely a lot more dramatic with social media peer pressure BS to contend with.

  2. OOh er – we always used to say to celebrities What do you think of us?
    https://www.rnz.co.nz/news/national/542561/miriam-margolyes-on-new-zealand-it-s-a-tiny-population-but-it-s-thrilling
    This sounds good and quite reasonable – we are interesting especially if we look at each other, talk and take an interest. The girlish feller down the supermarket – a friend was talking about someone giving him a hard time and how he told the bloke off. Oh I know him, nice feller I said; lots of village gossip in your own area. Get out hear bout it, exchange, watch the arts, walk through the sculpture garden, listen to the music, whatever.

  3. According to the American top doctor Loneliness in adults is equivalent to smoking 15 cigarettes a day . My view of how young people interact this is only going to get worse..Any li it on screen time would be a good move .Stopping phones in school was a great success and was welcomed by both pupils and teachers

  4. The rise of social media and digital interactions has left today’s teens more isolated than ever, replacing deep, human connections with flat-screen engagement. Without face-to-face interactions, the subconscious cues we evolved to rely on—facial expressions, body language, and tone—are lost. Instead, we are trapped in algorithm-driven echo chambers that fuel tribalism, division, and resentment. Social media warps reality, making it difficult to distinguish truth from manipulation, leading to increased loneliness and mental distress.

    Just as signal jammers can block unwanted communications to protect privacy and security, they could serve as a metaphor for shielding ourselves from the constant noise of social media. By limiting digital interference, we can reclaim authentic connections, stepping away from algorithm-driven division and towards genuine, in-person relationships that align with our evolutionary instincts.

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