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  1. I find it difficult to blame OT or the police at a personal level. I suspect most of the people involved did what they thought was best at the time and it’s easy to judge these things in hindsight.
    Prosecuting people working in such a challenging and complex space as child welfare would have much larger adverse effects. For every Tom Phillips case there are thousands of families and children whose lives are steered in a positive direction by OT and the police.
    Ultimately, Tom Phillips and possibly his parents – who were assigned some responsibility for monitoring and caring for the children – are responsible for the outcome. Not that I would prosecute the parents either – that may be justified but overly harsh.
    Saying all that, I do remember at the time of the first disappearance thinking that the guy is not in his right mind and clearly not putting his children’s welfare first.
    What where the factors or reasons that made the people involved at the ground level and above think that things were okay for so long?
    Why did the police always appear un-concerned when questioned – even after the children had been gone for several years?
    There were those in the NZ media who stood up for Tom Phillips – he was exercising his right to be with his children – he was, to some extent, treated as a bit of a heroic rebel standing up to the (female friendly) Family Court.
    Where does that come from? What part of our culture elicits that response to Tom Phillips behavior? Plenty of hard questions to ask ourselves as well the public services involved.

    1. This is a very good comment and very compassionately stated.
      I’d like some answers from the home-schooling people as well.
      The lack of formal education for 4 years is of great concern. The children’s limited environment and lack of contact with other people would not have been very educational or instructive after the first few months.
      Apart from the obvious dangers in the bush with a father whose mental health may have been less than good, access to guns, during cold and wet Waikato/King Country winters, lack of health/dental care, one girl approaching puberty, no-one in officialdom seemed to think that years of no schooling was a problem. It turned out to be 4 and unless the end had come when it did, last year, they could still be out there. Now, it would be 5 years.
      Those children missed the best years of their learning lives, living like little pack horses and being seen and not heard, I should imagine.
      Whatever their father had told the home-schooling people to keep them happy had been completely forgotten.
      I guess also, that the Phillips parents were terrified of him and for the children, so did nothing to rock the boat, simply hoping their son would remain stable.

  2. “When the welfare bureaucracy fails and results like Top Phillips are the outcome, NO ONE is ever held accountable in the welfare bureaucracy.”
    Seems reasonably fair to me. They’re the ones who are left holding the bag of shit. Perhaps we should get more accountability from our politicians. (Jesus, I can’t believe I said that.)

  3. I suspect the reason this case was passed over, or not dealt with correctly on multiple occasions had nothing to do with competence, or negligence. Rather prioritisation.