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  1. Better yet, why don’t we get up with the program like parts of Europe and actually pay parents to stay home and raise their kids in those crucial first 3 years.

    PPL is a joke ($600-odd a week after they tax that too) and a lot of people can’t sustain the drop in income, resulting in the barbaric expectation that tiny babies with developing brains and a need for attuned and consistent attachment, will be dropped at daycares for full time adult hours just so Mum and Dad can keep going to work.

    Contrary to popular belief, parents who would rather raise their children than climb the corporate ladder do still exist. Sadly, the choice has been removed by ever climbing bills, rates, rents and mortgages.

    1. Well said Janelle. Not much chance of such enlightened progress here though.

      Peters said years ago that women are separate ergonomic units who must fund their own lives and contribute to the tax-take.
      I’m guessing Seymour thinks the same given his love of privatisation and individuals looking after themselves.
      As for Luxon. Who knows what he thinks from one day to the next? His wife could stay home but not many can or want to.

      I agree, little babies dragged off to daycare at sub-zero temperatures and sub-sparrow hours seems counter-productive but these men know best.

      1. I don’t have much hope that NZ will follow in the footsteps of leaders like Scandinavia – we’ve lost our way and become too mean-spirited and selfish.
        It only takes a good idea requiring a bit of initial investment, to bring out the cries of “Who is going to PAY for it?” without people realising that we are all being taxed anyway and need to focus on investing in the right things, such as making it easier to raise a family.

        I also find it bizarre that parents are expected to pay strangers to care for their babies just so they can sit in offices. Babies are young for such a short time and in most cases, those best qualified to care for them are their parents. I do not think fielding Teams calls is the best use of a new parent’s time and society should be supporting parents rather than coercing them out to work with financial threats.

        It’s also interesting how it’s become almost fashionable to dislike children and how young women are exhorted that being a labour unit through a career is somehow empowering. It’s only empowering if it’s a legitimate choice.

        And no, I’m not writing this from the perspective of some privileged tradwife baking bread in her kitchen. I’m writing from the perspective of a young mother who was financially coerced back into the career I was sold far too soon and would have traded a lot for more time with my little one.